Tuesday, July 5, 2016

Ah-Choo! teaches Compromising with Siblings

Ah-Choo! a picture book for children by Lana Wayne Koehler and Gloria G. Adams, and illustrated by Ken Min is about a boy looking for a pet that will not make his sister sneeze. He goes through a list of animals from A to Z such as antelope, bobolink birds, cats and dogs to wolves and zebras and brings them home, to find out that each creature makes his sister go Ah-Choo! Children will enjoy reading what the boy does with the all the animals, and the pet he settles for, which does not make his sister sneeze.

It is a wonderful book to start conversations with children such as how we can compromise with our siblings and problem solving. I am glad the co-author of Ah-Choo! Gloria G. Adams was able to write a guest post for the readers of CreateWithMom and share her thoughts on this subject.

One of the best things I like about our book, Ah-Choo! is that the brother cares so much about his little sister. I mean, what kid do you know who would bring home an entire alphabet's worth of animals in order to find just one that won't make his sister sneeze?

It's exaggeration, of course, and fictional. But still, I love the little guy. He's out-of- this-world persistent! The ability to compromise is a life lesson that we all need to learn. As parents, the job of teaching that to our kids falls to us and daily conflicts provide plenty of opportunities. In the scenario in Ah-Choo!, the parents might have just said, "No, we can't ever have pets because of your sister." Or, they might have just gone out and purchased a Bearded Dragon to begin with. Instead, they left it to the boy to figure it out for himself and find a working solution. This takes a great deal of patience and guidance on the part of parents. But, in this case, they have obviously done a good job of teaching him not only to be empathetic to his sister's situation, but also taught him that it's possible to find solutions where both parties are satisfied. And given him the freedom to try.

According to Jennifer Luchesi Long, a teacher with a B.A. in psychology and a master's degree in both education and sociology, "Compromise is what makes sibling relationships, friendships, families, and society healthy and strong." Besides serving as strong role models, how do we accomplish this? According to Long, "kids need adults to help them remove emotion from a situation so that compromise is possible. Once helped to see both sides, kids are quick to accept mutual concession…" She also suggests a good resource, Parenting Science that provides games and activities to teach social skills because, "having good social skills is a prerequisite to compromise."

Reading Ah-Choo! to your kids can be a great way to open up discussions about particular conflict issues with which your kids might be dealing. Our main character goes to extreme lengths, which is what makes it funny. But it also makes him a great role model.

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20 comments:

  1. I live in Ontario, Canada. I definitely think it's important!

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  2. I live in Ontario, Canada Yes compromising with siblings is important it gives you a skill to use in later life

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  3. I am in BC and compromise is so important!
    jan

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  4. Cute book with lots of good tips. I will show it to my grandchildren :)

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  5. I'm in Canada and this would be a great book for Emily who was an only child for 8yrs now

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  6. I am in Ontario. Yes, compromising between siblings is important -- helps get them ready for compromising in the world as well.

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  7. I am in BC. yes, I do believe that compromising with siblings is important

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  8. I'm in BC Canada. I really think teaching siblings to compromise is key to successful relationships in the future.

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  9. I live in Ontario Canada, and yes I think it's very important!!

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  10. I'm in Alberta and yes I really do. Its a struggle with my 6 and 7 year olds right now as they do NOT want to compromise ever, but we're working on it.

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  11. I live in Ontario and definitely do think that teaching children about compromise is extremely important and they need to learn it as soon as they can understand the concept.

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  12. I'm from Alberta and yes, I think teaching children about compromise is extremely important. The younger the better.

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  13. I live in Ontario and yes I think it is very important!

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  14. I live in Nova Scotia and yes I think it is extremely important!!

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  15. I live in Newfoundland Canada and i think teaching about compromising between siblings is extremely important.

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  16. I live in Canada and yes, I think compromise between siblings is the basis for compromise outside the home.

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  17. I live in Ontario and do think that compromise between siblings is important. It teaches them like skills for the future.

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  18. I live in Canada. Teach children compromising and empathy straight away! It's the most important for success I think.

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  19. I live in Ontario. Compromise, sharing, we need to be taught these skills early in life

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  20. I'm in Ontario....and yes, compromise between siblings is very important. A great life lesson!

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